Do what it takes to make yourself happy. Not momentary, hedonistic, selfish at the expense of others happy. I mean truly happy. Sincerely, sublimely, completely, monumentally happy. Take the actions to insure against misery. Hate your life? Start a new one. Its never too late. Don't think that you deserve anything less. Know yourself. Follow your bliss. Make the decisions to better your existence. Don't settle.